It’s Not Where You Start
Written and Narrated By Scott Kyle
Review written by Louise Cannon

It’s Not Where You Start is Scott Kyle’s memoir of a life journey of twists and turns and one of bravery and resilience. I listened into the audiobook version of this award-winning bestselling book and left it way too long before I did. It’s highly worth listening in, even if you don’t feel like you have the time. It’s one I highly recommend you getting round to, whether it’s audio or book version, which brings some visuals with it. I heard a talk about it at the Edinburgh Fringe Festival in 2025 and it was very good and interesting and absolutely piqued my interesting in hearing the whole book. I also checked out his website. You can find a link at the end of my review and then you will discover the blurb.
Scott Kyle is a Scottish award-winning actor and producer who has starred in high profile dramas including Outlander, Angels Share, BBC drama, Trust Me. Life sounds pretty peachy and good when you know that, doesn’t it? Actors are human and have lives off the screen too and sometimes that isn’t quite how you may envisage them. Scott Kyle’s life wasn’t an easy one in Rutherglen, near Glasgow. His life story, however, is one of resilience that turns into positivity. It shows that, although affecting, it doesn’t matter where you start from, it’s what you try to do with it and what direction you choose that matters. Being a working class woman myself with a complex background in someways, his outlook is admirable.
It’s Not Where You Start is honest in the raw sense and narrated very well, conveying not just fact and anecdotes, but emotion as well. Each stage of his life is succinctly plotted and easy to follow. The narration is by Scott Kyle who grabs your attention and keeps it to the end with his perfect pacing and content. He is easy to listen to and truly draws you into his world of what it was and what it is now.
You can tell it couldn’t have been exactly easy to go to the places he chooses to tell his audience, but he does so in a way that’s compelling to listen to and makes you want to lean in and stay with it through the highs and the lowest of lows. You get a great understanding of where Scott Kyle is coming from and how he got to where he is today, but not without hard-work, perseverance and managing a whole lot of hardship, violence and neglect in-between. You get a real sense that there was a crossroads of either plummeting into despair and worse, or trying to make something of his life despite his background and dropping out of education. He has also been in the care system, survived it all to end up on those red carpets of Hollywood, winning awards and working with the best of the best, although there was a near miss when it came to Harrison Ford. He also has an award-winning show, Billy and Tim that’s been to many theatres of which there is also a podcast for. He also now gives talks, drawing from his experiences and with trauma-informed principals. He gives back a lot and having been fostered out, he has also become a foster-carer himself.
By the time the audiobook ends it leaves that warm, uplifting feeling that whatever you’re going through, things just might turn out alright and more so with a hope that his life continues to go from strength to strength. You can’t help but wonder what’s next for this actor/producer who started off with many challenges to overcome.
If it’s only one memoir of second chances you listen to this year, I highly recommend It’s Not Where You Start. You can listen to it via the usual streaming platforms.
Website: https://www.scottkyle.co.uk
Blurb
My story is no different from countless other youngsters. I could easily have fallen into a life of crime, violence, alcohol, drugs and despair. I could have chosen to follow the negative path and repeat the cycle but instead I chose to dwell on the positive moments. It really doesn’t matter where you start but where you finish.
Under the smiling face of ‘Glasgow’s Miles Better’, poverty and violence still loom large. Not everyone makes it out. But Scott Kyle did.
Latch-key kid from the back streets of Rutherglen to award-winning actor and producer on red carpets around the world, Scott’s story is one of hope.
With unflinching honesty and heart, he shares his journey, from a boy searching for belonging to a man determined to give back.
It’s Not Where You Start is more than a story of survival – it’s a testament to the transformative power of love, laughter and compassion.











