From Bucket List to Best Self
By Shane O’Brien
Review written by Louise Cannon
I like a bucket list. I’ve been creating a bucket list before I even knew that’s what it was called from the age of 15, some 20 odd years ago. The list, which used to be 3 lists, have contained the impossible, one which I had potential opportunity of and now kicking myself as will never have it again, I don’t think and some the seemingly impossible, but somehow has miraculously happened and some the achievable or the maybe one day I’ll get there. It’s evolved over the years as some things have been ticked off, some revisited as opportunity as risen and some just knocked off and replaced with something else.
So, a book about bucket lists was up my street, although is quite different from what I was expecting, but it’s still a good book and such a worthwhile read. The fun thing is everyone’s list is different and this is a type of list that I wouldn’t think of at all.

Blurb
From Bucket List to Best Self
Happiness, fulfilment and contentment are not a destination, they’re a journey.
Age has no relevance in this book, except for the fact that I personally completed my original bucket list before the age of thirty.
I am not some hot-shot world adventurer who has travelled to over forty countries. I am a person who knows what he enjoys. I am not an influencer who takes photos for Instagram, but someone who wants to look back on his memories when he’s old and grey.
I conquered some fears, gained self-confidence and learned to rely on myself. I discovered how to accept adversity and overcome it. I travelled the world and had some amazing times.
It’s not about focusing on the end goal but enjoying the personal journey.
The bucket list never ends.
It doesn’t matter when you start, only that you have started it; and that you’re fully intentional about your personal journey.
Review
Bucket List to Best Self isn’t quite like your, perhaps more traditional bucket lists of where you want to visit, what you want to see and experience, perhaps, who you’d like to meet, what you’d like to eat that isn’t in your everyday consumption. This is about self-improvement, but not in some blaze way, although he is within the psychology profession, but that just adds interest.
It, interestingly pulls you into really concentrating on Maslow’s theory, which was interesting, perhaps because I studied this as part of a wider course that wasn’t psychology as a whole, but even so, he talks about self-actualisation, really getting to know yourself. Self-actualisation is at the top of a triangle, illustrated in the book, with basic needs at the base of the triangle. It covers everything a human-being needs to survive and thrive. The triangle and the way the book seems to centre around it does sharpen your senses and makes you focus on you for a bit to see if you’re needs are being met in each segment that’s mentioned.
What excited me was a part about resisting conformity. I just love this, perhaps because I’ve been doing this all my life, from such a young age, resisting total conformity and choosing not to be a “sheep” as the saying goes, not that I am totally perfect at this.
The other interesting part tackles, rather bravely, one of life’s biggest questions, about “life purpose”, such a big topic, which is looked at a bit, as well as creating a focus on the journey, not the goal, which flips things on its head a bit as possibly lots of people focus on the goal.
It covers some adventure as well as the what you need to know about creating a bucket list and for self-improvement, also mentioning finances for the places you may like to visit too.
There are sections in the book where you can write things down that have pointers to create focus and the sorts of values and things you may like to achieve. It’s a very well laid out book.
All in all, it’s a fascinating book and is a very different take on the bucket list. One which people may find some useful life hacks from and more…
Purchase Link: https://mybook.to/bucketlistbestself-zbt
About the Author

Shane O’Brien is four-time All-Ireland champion in two different sports, has a Masters in psychology, ten years experience in youth work. He is a property investor, entrepreneur, and avid traveller. He has been to nearly forty counties before the age of thirty. From Bucket List to Best Self is a captivating exploration of personal growth drawing on Shane’s academic background in psychology and his diverse life experiences. Through a blend of research, personal anecdotes, and travel adventures, Shane offers readers a fresh and inspiring take on how to transform their lives and achieve their full potential.
Shane’s ability to seamlessly weave together his academic knowledge with real-world experiences sets From Bucket List to Best Self apart as a truly unique and valuable contribution to the self-help genre. His passion for personal development and his engaging writing style makes this book a must-read for anyone seeking to embark on a journey of self-discovery and growth.
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